When we first started noticing this trend, we were admittedly puzzled. Masturbation has always been looked upon as a solo activity. An activity that some women liked to believe men gave up once they left puberty and entered a committed relationship. I have one friend who has been happily married for 20 years. She told me she was sure her husband never masturbated. "He doesn't need to," she stated, "I never deny him sex and our sex life has always been great. Why would he rather make love to his hand than me?" "Ask him," I told her, and she did. She was surprised when he rather sheepishly admitted that he did masturbate on a regular basis. Her initial feelings were of hurt and guilt. Was she not enough to satisfy him sexually? He was able to reassure her that while their sex life was great, if she had sex with him every time he felt a sexual urge, she wouldn't think it was so great anymore. In fact, she'd be exhausted.
Men think of sex at least once a day. They fantasize twice as often as women. And studies show that when women enter into a committed relationship, their sex drive lowers while men's sex drive stays the same. So if we know there's very little possibility that a woman can keep up with her man's needs, why not be the bigger person and lend them a helping hand? Sure men can always use that old standby - their hand. However, if you can't have a different partner, you may as well have a different grip. With the number of devices on the market, isn't it better to get masturbation out of the closet and show your man you support him.
There are masturbation devices for every price point and preference. Unsure if you truly want to support his masturbation habit? Start out with a disposable masturbator. These toys start under $10.00 - a great way to try without a long commitment. If you're both on board, you can get him a masturbator molded from his porn star. If that feels a little too close to cheating, try a more generic masturbator. The best-selling Fleshlight Series will give him a tight, realistic experience.
Whatever you choose, your man will appreciate that you are acknowledging his sexual needs. Let's face it, sometimes you will not always be able to satisfy him. You may be recuperating from childbirth, entering menopause or just plain not in the mood. Whatever the reason, a healthy, committed relationship will benefit from both partner's openly recognizing each other's needs and helping to satisfy them.
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