Mothers Need Romance Too!

Listen up guys!  Sunday is Mother's Day!  While the day is traditionally devoted to the woman who gave you life, let's think for a moment about the woman who gave your children life.  After all, before she became a mother, she was your lover.  

Do you remember what your life was like before you had children?  When sex was a spontaneous act that didn't require as much scheduling as a White House briefing?  When the only reason you were too tired to have sex was because you were tired from having so much sex?  BC (before children) you could have morning sex, afternoon sex, late night sex.  You could have sex in the bedroom, the bathroom, the kitchen, the laundry room.  You could use loud sex toys, watch porn in the living room and moan as loud as you want to.  

Children certainly change everything.  But don't despair, you can still recapture romance without shipping your kids off to the babysitter.  First thing, set the mood.  We've all heard foreplay begins at breakfast.  So on Sunday morning, start off with breakfast in bed.  Bring in her favorite breakfast on a nice tray.  A flower from the backyard would be a nice touch.  And don't forget the card!  Most women deem a card more important than an actual gift.  Let her know that today is all about her.  

After the kids go to bed, the real celebration can begin.  First, set the stage.  Arrange the room with scented candles and strew the bed with rose petals.  Try our game Rose Petal Seductions which not only sets the stage, but also sets a fun, playful mood - perfect for romance!

Then give her a sensual massage.  Don't know how to give one?  Sinclair makes a great DVD entitled The Joy of Erotic Massage.  This DVD features real couples explicitly demonstrating both massage techniques and advanced methods to relax, arouse and satisfy!  Don't forget the massage oil.  We like Kama Sutra's Massage Oil in sweet almond or use an unscented massage oil.  Some candles turn into heated massage oils, like the Tantric Soy Massage Candle.  This luxurious massage candle melts into a silky, nourishing oil that will glide over skin as it fills the room with a warm, sexy scent.   

Next it's movie and a toy time!  Pop in a couple-friendly movie, like Digital Playground's Pirates Collector's Edition.  It's the movie everyone talks about and is the biggest epic in the history of adult films.  It has a story line and a touch of humor - perfect for both of you.  Follow up with a high quality, couples toy.  Our best-seller is the We Vibe 4. 

This is one remote you won't have to fight over!  Worn while making love, the We-Vibe 4 boasts more power, a fully waterproof design, a convenient wireless remote control, and a wireless charger base.  Best of all, it's whisper-quiet and super powerful.  By the time the evening ends, you'll remember why you got together in the first place and you'll recapture the romance of life before children.  Best of all,she'll owe you for Father's Day in June too!

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Sexy Easter

At Fantasy Gifts, we truly believe that any holiday can turn into a sexy holiday with a little creative thinking.  Everyone thinks sexy stocking stuffers at Christmas and Valentine's Day is a no-brainer.  But why not think outside the box for Easter?  Easter is a perfect time to remind your mate that you still think they're hot.  Instead of limiting Easter to peeps and jelly beans, here are a few suggestions to make sure your love bunny keeps hopping down your trail!

The Easter basket is such an easy vessel to fill with sexy, romantic gifts.  Start with the plastic egg - the cheap ones you can buy at any store.  Instead of filling it with candy, fill it with pillow packs of lubricants.  They fit in easily and are much more fun to search for!

Easter is synonymous with chocolate.  We have a full selection of naughty, delicious chocolate in all your favorite anatomically correct body parts!  Or if you prefer, paint your partner in chocolate with Shunga Edible Body Paint.  Don't like chocolate?  Hott Products Edible Body Paint comes in a rainbow of colors and flavors, including passion fruit, pina colada, strawberry and cherry!  

The Tenga Egg is one of our favorite Easter products.  This cute little egg is actually a disposable male masturbator.  Available in six fun shapes and textures - the Tenga Egg is perfect for the man who seems to have everything!

Ever since "Sex and the City" put Vibratex Rabbit Habit on the map, the rabbit vibrator has become the most popular shape for vibrators.  It's now available at almost any price point and in a variety of materials.  One of our favorites is the Waterproof Jack Rabbit by California Exotic.  Available in pink or purple, it's made of PVC and it's completely waterproof so it can be used in the shower or bath, or out!

Finally, put some spring in your step and pair any piece of lingerie with a simple pair of bunny ears.  It's simple and easy, plus it's a great excuse to put the flannel pajamas away and break out the spring lingerie.

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Halloween Isn't Just for Kids

Halloween is just around the corner and we've all been inundated with costumes.  With pop-up costume stores on every corner, it may seem impossible to create a unique, adult costume that won't make you look like every other sexy cat in the neighborhood.  Luckily, a creative adult costume doesn't have to come from a package.  With a few basic pieces, you can transform yourself into almost anything you can imagine.  Best of all, these pieces can all be worn again giving you a significant return on your investment.  Ready to start creating?

Step 1.  Start with a great corset.  A great corset is the perfect foundation from which to build your costume.  Best of all, no female wardrobe is complete without one.  A corset is not only sexy on its own at a club, it looks great under a blazer for a sophisticated night out and looks even better alone with a g-string as lingerie.  There are so many wonderful uses for a great corset that if you don't already buy one, now is the perfect opportunity.  Fantasy Gifts in New Jersey has a great selection up to sizes 3X and some are even reversible - giving you even more bang for your buck!

Step 2. Add a tutu.  Almost all fun, sexy costumes for women can incorporate a tutu.  Witches, showgirls, pirates, cats, princess, flappers - the list goes on and on.  Tutus are fun and can show off a great pair of legs.
They are also relatively inexpensive, even the light-up ones cost under $20.00 so go for it!

Step 3. Pick out hosiery.  No matter what the costume - you need to cover those legs on a cold fall night. Fantasy Gifts in New Jersey has a large selection of fishnets, thigh his, back seamed, school girl tights - you name, we have it in your size and color!

Step 4.  Add a wig.  Wigs are fun.  Don't mess with styling your hair - a great wig will instantly transform your appearance while still keeping you super sexy.  For one night, have the hair of your dreams!

Step 5.  Add some lashes.  False eyelashes are the surest way to make your eyes pop.  This is Halloween - make a dramatic statement.

Step 6.  Add your accessories.  You already have a great foundation - now you can accessorize it any way you want to truly make your costume unique.  Add cat ears and a tail and you're a sexy cat.  A witch's hat and a wand - boom!  Some cute wings and you can be a ladybug, bumblebee or anything that flies.  Put your hair in pigtails and add a plaid skirt and you're a naughty school girl.  Accessories are the cheapest and easiest way to take the guess work out of your costume building.

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