Your Prostate and Sexual Health

September is National Prostate Month!  Why is this little organ so important and why should it be on your radar?  Because over 30 million men suffer from prostate conditions that affect their quality of life.

For those of you who don't know, the prostate is actually a sexual organ.  It's a small gland, about the size of a walnut, that surrounds the urethra.  The urethra carries urine and semen through the penis.  In some men, the prostate begins to grow around age 40.  An enlarged prostate can lead to frequent urination or erectile dysfunction.  Prostate cancer is also the most common cancer found in men and is the second leading cause of death among men (lung cancer is first).

Because the prostate is a sexual organ, the stimulation of it during sexual intercourse is very pleasurable for most men.  Fortunately, unlike the elusive g-spot, it's also easier to find.  While you can use an ordinary g-spot vibrator to stimulate the prostate, we recommend a vibrator specifically meant for the prostate like Dr. Joel Kaplan's Prostate Massager.

There's also a fabulous new line of male prostate devices from Aneros.  Aneros' prostate massagers are designed to trigger multiple orgasms by stimulating and strengthening the prostate.  The tip of the massager rests comfortably against the prostate while the massager pivots back and forth using only the anal muscles.  This enables a man's erection to be harder and last longer.  

As with any massager, we always recommend using a lubricant.  Aneros again comes to the rescue with a line of Marksman Disposable Lubricant Applicators which are pre-filled lubricant shooters designed to deliver the perfect amount of lubricant right on target, every time.  

The important thing to remember is that all men have a prostate.  Like any part of your body, it is important to care for it.  The stimulation of the prostate produces a normal, healthy, sexual response.  

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Celebrate Oral Sex Month!

June is Oral Sex Month! Celebrate by Doing Down!

June is Oral Sex Month and Fantasy Gifts is celebrating!  What started as a simple little day, June 9, has blossomed into an entire month!  How did June 9 become Oral Sex Day?  Think about it!  It's the ninth day of the sixth month - 6-9, 69 dude!

Whether you're going down on a him or a her, technique is important - otherwise it's just a hot mess!  Let's start with going down on him.  I once had a girlfriend who thought giving a blow job meant just that.  Imagine her date's surprise when she tried to literally tried to bring him to orgasm by just blowing on his penis!  Hopefully she's learned a little since then, like an effective blow job involves more than just the penis.  Men have several sensitive parts down there and they all deserve attention.  The testicles should be stimulated by playing with his balls.  His prostate, or p-spot, is said to be analogous to the women's g-spot.  It can be stimulated manually by using two knuckles to massage his perineum, or you can use a vibrator specifically designed to stimulate his p-spot.  We like Pipedream's Silicone PE vibrator.  It's narrowed, tapered tip makes insertion easy and the ringed handles makes for easy removal.

When performing oral sex, don't forget the lubricant!  Doc Johnson's Good Head Gel is specifically formulated to be used during oral sex.  It provides a tingly, flavored sensation.  Worried about gagging?  Try a product like Comfortably Numb Deep Throat Spray.  It's a flavored desensitizing spray that lightly coats the back of the throat to suppress the gag reflex during oral sex.  One of our favorite new products is the Doc Johnson Helping Head Ultimate BJ Helper.  This is a 2" mini stroker that fits over the shaft of the penis, leaving the most sensitive glands on the head of the penis free for oral stimulation.  The combination is sure to make any man explode!

If the latest news stories involving Michael Douglas have taught us anything, it's that there's no such thing as safe sex.  While you can't get pregnant from oral sex, you can transmit sexual diseases, such as the HP virus. If you're not in a safe, committed relationship, we recommend using a condom during oral sex.  Flavored condoms are available in many flavors to maximize your enjoyment.  

Don't forget to celebrate Oral Sex Month this June!  Stop by a Fantasy Gifts store in New Jersey and receive a free Tongue Dinger tongue vibrator free with any $50.00 purchase.  Next entry: Oral Sex for Her - it's more than just the alphabet!

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