Celebrate the Fourth with a Bang! (Literally)

Ready or not, it's coming!  The fourth of July.  While some may argue that celebrating our nation's independence from British rule is one of the unsexiest holidays ever - we completely disagree!  July is summer - hot and sexy!  Free yourself from social constrictions and celebrate with a bang!

Most people probably don't think much about sex in colonial times - heaving bosoms aside, all those clothes and social mores must have put a damper on sexual freedom.  However, the ironic thing is that in many ways, we are more Puritanical about sex today than we were back then.  According to Richard Goodbeer's Sexual Revolution in Early America, most Colonists had a pretty liberal view about sexuality.  Because there was no expectation of privacy, Americans were exposed to sex early and often.  It was generally understood that sex was normal and healthy and therefore should not be concealed, but celebrated in bawdy books, songs and stories.

Fantasy Gifts NJ believes the best way to see fireworks is together.  The following products can be used alone but when used in partnership with each other it creates an even more explosive experience.  

System JO 2 to Tango Pleasure Kit for Couples:

The Dance that Only the Two can Dance!   This products creates the perfect union of prolonging and stimulating personal lubricant kit for women and for men.  This product contains a formula for women to enhance & stimulate, provide heightened sensation and enhanced gratification.  The formula for men is intended to prolong & excite!  The result is harder, stronger and prolonged lovemaking!   

ON Power Glide for Him and ON Arousal Oil for Her

 

ON Arousal is the most revolutionary female arousal product on the market - perfect for the fourth of July! This shockingly powerful botanical formula creates a warm and extremely unique buzzing sensation that awakens the nerve endings, increases blood flow and makes a woman feel more sensation than ever before!  ON Power Glide for him naturally boosts his performance and increases his sex drive.  The combination of these two products will make for an explosive holiday! 

Forta for Men  is 100% all natural supplements designed to maximize the human body’s potential for arousal and blood flow.  Forta for Men is a new remarkable fast acting all natural sexual enhancement product that makes the most of a man’s natural potential, allowing him to fortify his sex life naturally.   Once Forta For Men has been consumed an erection usually takes place within 45 minutes, and the effects can last 2 to 3 days.

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How to Really Celebrate Father's Day

Father's Day is approaching and although you may be tempted to get back at him for the lack of imagination he showed you on Mother's Day - don't!  After all, no one could possibly live up to the hype that surrounds Mother's Day - it's the Hallmark equivalent of Valentine's Day almost -except with zero benefit to him!  Father's Day however, only takes up 1/3 the amount of greeting card space and seems to suffer from the notion that all men want to do on Father's Day is drink beer and play golf.

Assuming your man is one of the millions that don't want to drink beer and play golf - how else should you celebrate?  Let's face it - men are very simple creatures.  It takes very little to make them happy.  Unlike Mother's Day, they don't need a card full of sappy sentiment nor do they want the perfect present of jewelry, flowers and chocolate (you can see why Mother's Day is a lot like Valentine's Day).  All they really need to make them happy this Father's Day is a mind-blowing orgasm.

Yes, yes, I know, you do a lot throughout the year and you'd like a mind-blowing orgasm once a year too.  Well tough, this day is about him.  And if you do it right, I'm sure he'll return the favor.  So buy yourself some sexy lingerie.  No need to spend a fortune, it won't stay on for too long anyway.  And don't worry about how you look in it - he really doesn't care.  He'll think you look good in anything slutty no matter how many rolls of fat are sticking out.  Really, the gold standard in buying lingerie should be if you wouldn't be caught dead in it - he'll probably love it.

Next, foreplay.  Don't get too carried away.  The average sexual experience only lasts an average of 3 minutes.  You don't want all your hard work and planning to go to waste.  Don't bother with scented candles, they'll only make him sneeze.  Maybe cue up a good erotic movie.  Remember, men are visual creatures.  The story line does not matter.  After a few minutes, you should be good to go.

Finally, the mind-blowing orgasm part.  Hate to break it to you ladies, but it's a blow job.  It's really all he wants for Father's Day - so why not just give it to him.  He'll be so grateful.  According to Marcy Michaels in her book Blow Him Away: How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex, even mediocre blow jobs make men happy.  So unless you have an unfortunate tendency to bite, it's very hard to perform an unsuccessful blowjob. But this is Father's Day - we're not shooting for mediocre.  Remember the standard is mind-blowing.  So how is mind-blowing accomplished?  Start with simply paying attention to him.  You know the saying that foreplay begins at breakfast?  That only applies to women.  For him, start the moment by focusing solely on him.  No distracting television, no worrying that the kids are going to walk him, no interrupting in the middle to wonder if you paid the mortgage bill.  This is all about him.  So kiss him, look at him, tell him how much you love him and how you still find him sexy.  Pay attention to his whole body, not just his penis.  We'll get to that in a minute.  But for just a few minutes, enjoy all of him from the top of his scalp to the tip of his toes.

Next, focus on his goods.  But not too quickly.  There's more down there than just his penis.  Stroke his perineum, his balls before gently taking him in your mouth.  And remember that men are visual creatures - maintain eye contact.  Act like this is the best experience you've ever had.  Use some flavored lubricants if you like (this is the one instance where you can think about your preference).  Warm up by running your lips around his penis - avoid the head at first.  When you're ready, take him into your mouth slowly and massage his balls simultaneously.  Don't forget his perineum - it's a very sensitive area.  Finally, use your hands or a tool like the Doc Johnson Good Head Helping Head to stroke him while engaging him in your mouth.  And don't forget to swallow - it's Father's Day after all!

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How to Celebrate Oral Sex Day

Did you know that June 9 is Oral Sex Day (6-9, get it?).  How better to celebrate this day than with amazing oral sex!  Oral Sex is so much more than just a blow job or cunnilingus.  Done correctly, it can give you the most mind-blowing orgasm you have ever experienced.  In honor of the true 6-9 day, we are going to give you step by step instructions on how to correctly perform in this position.

Step 1:  Keep it Clean.  We all know what goes on down there and how close our genital areas are to other, shall we say, malodorous areas.  Nothing will kill the mood faster than catching a whiff of anything less than sanitary.  So please, before you begin, make sure all exit and off ramps are clean and pleasant.  Take a shower or bubble bath together to set the mood.

Step 2:  Shaving.  The issue of whether to shave or not to shave is actually a hot topic button.  While some prefer the genital area to be smooth and hair-free, others prefer a natural jungle.  Whatever your preference, make sure your partner is on the same page as well.  This is a duet, not a solo.  Shaving your partner can actually be a sexy form of foreplay, try using a product like Coochy Creme which is specifically formulated to use on coarse pubic hair.

Step 3: Pick your position.  Wait, you mean 69 doesn't mean just one position?  Of course not, this is sex people - there are about as many variations on the 69 position as there are on the standard missionary position - nothing's standard anymore!  According to the book Fifty Shades Of Oral Pleasure by Marisa Bennett, there's the Reverse Hookup where you use any padded surface and he lies down with her on top.  The Lazy 69 is a sideways 69 and you lie in bed together.  The Massage Envy takes an erotic massage to a whole new level - make sure you have plenty of massage oil on hand.  Downward Dog calls for the receiver to lie face down on the bed and present their rear for oral stimulation.  There's also the Strong Man which, obviously, needs a very strong man to support her weight while both partners are vertical, but she is upside down.  Very dangerous if you don't know what you're doing!

Step 4:  Add your accessories.  Oral Sex is not complete without adding in some oral enhancements.  Whether it's a Good Head Gel, a BJ Blast or even just a flavored lip balm, no 69 encounter is complete without your favorite flavor.  So go ahead and celebrate 6-9 Day!

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Bachelorette Party Favors

Bachelorette Season is upon us and if you are one of the lucky bridesmaids, our condolences!  Not only do you have to pay for a dress you will never wear again, you also have to help plan for (and pay!) for the bridal shower and the bachelorette party!

Luckily, you can do some wonderful, creative things on a budget.  It just takes a little planning and a few dollars.  Even if you are not crafty at all, there are still easy ways to look like the Martha Stewart of hen parties.  All it requires is a trip to the dollar store and your local Fantasy Gifts.

Below are some examples of some party favors we quickly we put together.  They each cost under $10 to assemble.

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